Since you already know that I’m trans and queer (and also gay), let’s talk about basic civil rights struggles the LGBTQIA community still faces:
- Housing and employment discrimination
- Direct violence at the hands of lovers, family, and strangers
- “Trans panic” defense
- Higher incarceration rates and police brutality
- Access to healthcare (sexual, gender-affirming, and otherwise)
- Extra barriers to child custody
- Regular verbal abuse and sexual fetishization
- But also regular silencing, invisibility, lack of representation, and invalidation
Obviously all of those issues intersect with misogyny, racism, classism, xenophobia, ableism, and other kinds of body shaming and identity policing.
Coming out doesn’t happen once: it’s a calculated cost/benefit analysis you take every time you walk down the street or meet someone new. It’s also a tool to police and create hierarchies among queer identities as though you are obligated to disclose personal information which totally sucks.
Also, in case you didn’t know, the “A” stands for asexual and agender, not ally; and the position of the ally is only there to allow closeted LGBTQIA people a cover when participating; so if you’re cishet you can be an ally, but remember that this isn’t about you.